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11 THINGS A LADY SHOULD HAVE IN HER PURSE

I usually have problems knowing what to carry and what not to carry around in my bag everyday and so I end up carrying everything (literally), this makes my bag big for no reason and messy which isn't really ladylike. In order to avoid this, I've put down a list of things I think a lady should carry in her bag and here they are:

1. A LIPGLOSS OR LIPSTICK
         You don't want to be walking around with dried out lips, trust me I know cause when it starts to peel, it's painful. And dried out lips are so not sexy, in fact,  they can be a turn off so moisturize those lips girl.
It also wouldn't be a bad idea to carry a lipstick especially one that makes you feel like a diva once you put it on. I'd recommend red 😋

2. SAFETY PINS
        It's adviceable to have a few handy just incase of an emergency of wardrobe malfunction.

3. SANITARY PADS OR TAMPONS
       I can't emphasize onthis, only God knows how many times carrying extra pads in my bag has saved me. You can also carry an extra one just incase your friend need one. Thank me later.

4. PORTABLE CHARGER
       Having your phone go off at the wrong time is bad enough, not having a charger with you especially when you can plug it, is worse.
I'd assume you know the feeling.

5. SMALL PACK OF TISSUES
      Just incase you need to use the loo and there isn't any tissue.

6. HAND SANITIZER
      I'm not proud to say this but sometimes I sneeze in my hands, big deal (rolling my eyes) and I know a lot of people do that too. When you around you have to shake people or hold the railing while taking the stairs so a hand sanitizer is really important if you don't want to be falling sick.

7. A NOTEPAD AND BIRO
       The best ideas come to you at the craziest times, it'd be easier to remember if you put it down.

8. A SMALL PERFUME
        You don't want to go around smelling of sweat now do you? No.

9. BREATH FRESHNER
        I love fish but you'd agree with me that having to perceive the smell of fish from someone's mouth has to be the nastiest thing ever.. Arghhh, eeeewww.
So carry a small pack of mint gum or something. Thank you.

10. HAIR BAND
       I've been in a lot of situations where the weather gets so hot that having my hair down feels like torture, so this is for those type of days.
Also, you might have to work impromptu and you don't want your hair all up in your face.

11. HEADPHONES
        I love music and it really helps to have them handy for relaxation or to keep yourself busy while waiting for someone.
      
     

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