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IT IS EARNED!!

“If my dad or mom says something as stupid as what you just said, please insult him or her cause I’m about to insult you”, said my elder sister when she was narrating one of them stories from her “school days”.

Respect goes both ways y’all!! 

I’m not very sure but I think this is an African thing, everyone uses “age” as an excuse to insult people and honestly it just shows how ignorant Africans are.

Lol, like how they call us back to greet... y’all think we didn’t see you in the first place?? 😂

Look, respect is earned. Start by respecting yourself. There are certain things people say that are not necessary.




So, I had a little banter with someone in church and while scolding me, my dad said I shouldn’t refer to that person that disrespectfully cause she’s older than my elder sister and I bluntly told him that my sister wouldn’t say the kind of things she said to me to anyone, regardless of their age 🤷🏼‍♀️

Most of y’all pride in being called “uncle” and “Aunty” but do y’all act like Uncles and Aunties? And why... oh Jesus, why is it so important?
Is that what you were named?? Is it your real nammmmeee??? Lmao 😂 
Y’all should free me jare 

You say we are “backward” but how “forward” are y’all?? Lol, I refuse to be childish 😏😏
I can’t even say too much about this... 
I hope you all catch my drift though.

Give respect to whom respect is due.

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